Ex-boyfriend of 3 months demands ex-girlfriend pay $400 for wedding trip she backed out of plus $150 extra for the bride: 'I'm at least doing Meg the courtesy of giving over a month's notice'

When you're in the early stages of dating someone, it's important to be careful about the kinds of plans you make. You might be tempted to think far out in the future and fantasize about all the milestones you'll hit together. Meeting their family, taking a trip together, and attending all sorts of life events side by side. But you don't know each other that well yet. You shouldn't make promises you know you can't keep because feelings can get easily hurt that way. If you plan too far out into the future, you'll either feel obligated to stay with them even if you know you don't want to, or you break a commitment and step on some feelings. 

This is why it's best to keep things loose in the beginning. Planning a trip together during the first month of the relationship? Not a great idea. This might seem like common sense, but you would be surprised at the behavior of strangers. Or maybe they're not strangers. They're your friends, and you're so annoyed with having to deal with them. Either way, strap in.

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